Get Back Together With Your Ex-Girlfriend As A Result Of Becoming Less Attainable And An Increased Challenge To Her
You had been a challenge for her. You had a very high value and she was irresistibly attracted to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I'm about to make a wild guess here, and yet is it that as time went on, you grew to become less and less of a challenge for her? And is it that now, you are zero challenge for her? And that she understands that if she wanted to, at any moment she could easily get you back again and twisted around her finger simply by saying the word?
Now I'm going to be crude here, but as you know, to become a challenge once again you must show to your ex that her sexuality has no influence over you any longer. Think about what it's like when you're stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. After which think of exactly what it's like when you continue doing it (as quite a few guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You're indicating to the woman that you're a low-value guy with no other sexual alternatives.
Your lady won't respect you again until you refuse her lovemaking power over you. Fortunately you're doing that now by not specifically interacting with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Be sure to stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. Do not be "pals" with her, simply because that rewards her with the continued validation of power over you while providing her a handy justification to stay split up. (She reasons that she is letting you down easy that way, assuaging any guilt she may feel.)
On the other hand, you should definitely keep her locked in with the help of your stuff. Probably quite a few your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She may even owe you money as well. She might request a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you'd like everything back.
The very best reply to this is "No, not yet. The reason is because her holding onto your things (and you possessing hers) is still locking the two of you in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would be caused by settling your accounts.
For the next 3 weeks, you need to completely acknowledge -- and embrace -- the undeniable fact that you are an independent man now. Take what occurred with your ex and learn from it. You've got a golden opportunity to revolutionize your life which will eventually allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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